Monday, October 14, 2013

Starting a Homeschool Co-op, Classically Catholic Memory

When we moved here to South Texas two years ago, we left a large and active Catholic homeschooling group and a new co-op that we were really enjoying.  We quickly plugged into a local Catholic homeschooling group and joined some of their activities.  As our first summer approached, I considered the idea of starting a similar co-op here, and did send an email to see if there was interest, but in the end we kept it a slow year.  So as this past summer began, I brought up the idea again and had a good response, with many families interested in starting a Classically Catholic Memory Co-Op.  I'll recount some major aspects of starting a co-op.



Gauge Interest
When asking for families to express interest in the co-op, I sent a detailed email to my homeschooling group with a link to the website and a summary of this particular co-op.  I brought some of the materials to a homeschool event so the other moms could look through them.  I kept a list of interested families and the number of children and then started preparing for an informational meeting.  In my case, I knew the particular co-op program I wanted to use, but other groups might also need to take some time to pray about the particular type of co-op that is needed in your area.

Find a Partner
I found it was going to be very important for me to have a partner to help start the co-op and share the duties.  A leadership team could be another option for a larger group, but I think it's good to keep it to a small number of people who will work well together.  Having a co-leader allows you to bounce ideas off of someone and brainstorm together.  We were able to meet in person and over the phone for some of the planning, and we continue to communicate through email to make sure things are going smoothly.  I have handled most of the emailing, the coordination with the parish, and heading things up during the actual co-op.  My partner does more of the logistical duties, handling the family registration, the class lists, and the financial aspects of the co-op.

Find a Location
We were grateful that the location was easy to determine.  Our parish is very supportive of homeschooling and allows us to use the facilities without a charge.  We still plan to give a donation to help cover building maintenance and utilities.  Our registration fee was around $30/family to help cover class supplies, in particular for the science class.  It looks like we have used up a lot of the fees, though, so I think $50/family would have been a better amount to be sure we have enough to give a nice donation to the church.  We tried to keep the costs down since most families had already ordered a CCM textbook (around $30), and some bought the entire CCM Alpha year kit (around $100).  We might ask for a bit extra for those who want to contribute to the church donation.

I know many other groups have a huge undertaking with finding a parish that will allow them to meet, and sometimes they must provide their own liability insurance.  Some groups have continued concerns with the relationship with the parish, student behavior, etc.  We have still had a few small logistical issues, but there haven't been major concerns.  We did make sure to confirm that the buildings were available during our desired meeting times, and made sure to talk with our pastor to be assured of his support in beginning this program.  I also talk to the secretary each week to ask for the church to be opened, so we are in communication during that time.

Offer Informational Meetings
We offered two informational meetings this summer in late June and early July.  Since our parish was in a transition time getting a new pastor, we opted to have the meetings at my house.  One was on a Saturday morning and one on a Monday morning, with children welcome at both and snacks offered.  During this time, we gave basic information about the co-op, passed around the materials to look at, offered a rough schedule for the co-op, asked for teacher volunteers, and asked for input as to the meeting day and time.  We started the meetings planning to have the co-op on Friday mornings, but after discussions with the interested families, we opted to schedule it on Tuesday afternoons.  We meet every other Tuesday from 12:00noon-3:00pm.  We handed out registration forms and gave a final date for sign-ups.  We also asked the moms to order their materials by the end of July and scheduled two planning meetings for teaching preparation.

Secure Teachers and Volunteers
We asked all the moms to either be teaching partners for one subject during the co-op, or to help in the nursery.  For the most part, moms of two children preschool age and younger are in the nursery.  Our co-op has seven subjects, and we have separated those subjects into four half-hour classes, with two moms teaching each class.  Our subjects are Science, Geography/Math, Timeline/History, and Poetry/Art.  Sometimes we have a mom as a floater as well.  The lessons aren't too involved because we have the CCM textbook that offers most of the information we need, and we are just teaching basic memory work for each subject.  We have 3 groups of students, grades K-1st, 2nd-4th, and 5th-8th.  We split the groups based on registration numbers and ages of the children.

Schedule Planning Meetings/Work Days
We opted to schedule two planning meetings for the moms of the co-op.  This gave us time to go over the schedule, address a lot of details about the co-op, discuss questions or concerns, and allow the moms time to do some planning with their co-teachers.  We scheduled two meetings, but in the end we only needed one of the planning meetings and had the teachers discuss further issues with their partners apart from the meeting time.  These planning meetings were held at the parish on a weekday afternoon, with children playing on the playground.  Ideally, they would be a mom-only event, but in our case we were short on time and limited on dates.

Details to Consider
I was surprised at just how many details we needed to discuss with the group during the planning meeting and the first few co-ops.  Some of these included: uniforms, snack time, chapel time, nursery details like diapering, illness policies, cut-off ages, playground usage, behavior systems, restroom routines, etc.  Our group opted to ask students to wear a uniform with a navy or red shirt (collared for boys) and khaki bottoms.  We have a snack time after the 2nd class of each co-op, during which the children give short presentations on a designated topic like their favorite book or their favorite summer memory.

We also begin our co-op afternoons in the church sanctuary for our lovely Chapel Time.  We start with the Memory Work CD playing to help us review while families are arriving.  We do an opening prayer, learn the Latin prayer or song for the week, and learn the Religion memory work for the week.  One family then leads a short presentation, either on the week's Religion topic or on another religious topic of choice like a saint or feast day.  Finally, we line up in classes outside and say the US Pledge, the Texas Pledge, and we sing a patriotic song before starting classes.

At the end of the co-op we meet to close in prayer at 2:45pm and discuss any important announcements.  Then the children are released to their parents to help the parents clean up their assigned area.  We allow the children to play on the playground for a few minutes before locking up the building, usually around 3:15pm. 

Classically Catholic Memory
What I like most about the CCM Program is that it is an educational enrichment co-op that allows the children the social aspects of a classroom experience while teaching them classical Catholic memory work.  Following a classical approach to education, memory work is something I want my children to learn anyway (memorizing poems, geography facts, Catechism, a historical timeline, etc).  Doing the memory work in a classroom atmosphere is very fun and motivating for them, and for us has been much, much easier than trying to do it at home.  They also get a chance to speak in front of a group during the presentation time each week, have a short art lesson, and do some hands-on science projects thanks to our great science teachers who are both pediatricians by trade!  I have roughly followed the Mother of Divine Grace homeschool program over the years, and this memory work fits in very well with the MODG methodology.

How Much Work for the Leaders
I admit that I felt a bit "in over my head" this summer.  I decided to start the co-op before we were expecting a new baby, and I ended up spending most of July working through issues with my pregnancy and doctor situation.  There were several points in time where I really questioned my ability to coordinate something of this magnitude, especially when we had close to 20 families interested!  In the end, only about 12 families registered, which has been a great number for our group.

Aside from the initial work I've detailed above, there have been little ongoing concerns throughout the semester to deal with.  Those have included building maintenance like AC and plumbing, coordinating with the secretary to get into the church sanctuary, communicating with new families who want to join, keeping the meetings on time, behavior issues, and supervising clean-up and lock-up of the buildings.  My partner has had to handle accepting and depositing checks, reimbursement for class supplies, updating class and family rosters, scheduling families to lead the chapel time, and making the calendar for the year.  She'll also have to step in when I am gone for a few weeks before and after the baby's arrival.

Each week has gotten easier for me, although I am still wiped out at the end of each co-op day.  I think a lot of this is due to the pregnancy and the excessive heat here in South Texas!  But the work has been worth it, and the moms are telling me that their kids are really enjoying it, so that is reassuring.  We'll see what happens in the coming years, but the Classically Catholic Memory co-op seems like a good fit for our group and for our family this school year.

 

Tuesday, October 08, 2013

Homeschooling in a Three Ring Circus

Kendra at Catholic All Year has a fun post entitled "Homeschooling: One Room Schoolhouse Meets Three Ring Circus" in which she shares a little bit about her homeschooling approach.  She also has a link-up for others of us to share what a day of homeschooling looks like in our home.  I've found one that I wrote in 2008, but I think it's time for an update!

So to help me get back into blogging more than weekly, and to have some fun on an always-manic Monday, I decided to document our day with my iPhone and join her link-up.  Our life definitely feels more "Three Ring Circus" than "One Room Schoolhouse."  See for yourself...

7:40am--Oldest comes in wondering why Daddy hasn't left for work.  He had a dentist appointment at 9am, so I had some company while getting the day started.  Nice!

7:50--I decide to go ahead and take a shower while he was here, although I probably should've made him a nice breakfast.  Everyone just found food for themselves, so most of the kids ate graham crackers and milk for breakfast.  Oh well.

8:30--I am slow moving in the morning, but I also have a potty-training toddler, and get very easily distracted with things like a load of laundry.  So I finally got dressed, as you can see here...

And then I think this was when we were sitting on the couch reading a few bible stories.  We're really enjoying the "Jesus Storybook Bible" these days.

Almost everyone is dressed, except the princess here who wanted her picture taken...
I am slow-moving, but Ellie is sloooooow-moving.

9:00am--I am ready to print their homeschool checklists and start getting them to work!  Except the computer is threatening that Microsoft Word won't work anymore (our 30-day trial in '06 is over, it says).  I guess it was just a glitch, and I finally open up Word and print the checklists!  Hooray!  Last week our computer crashed, so we didn't have checklists.  They keep us on track, so I am grateful to have the checklists for them again this week.
 

And to share a bit of why I get distracted.  You can see why my husband has been asking for a closet clean-out for awhile now.  I am trying my hardest to not be jealous of Kendra's 5-morning-a-week housekeeper.  I'm quite sure I would be a truly sane woman if we could afford something like that, but housekeepers here run $100/DAY!

I can get the clothes washed, but NEVER all put away.  And now we have a tiny laundry room, so it becomes a problem.  This was before another load was finished.  And this is all clean laundry.

Okay, so back to school.  Steven Joseph gets started on his writing with this fun new Crayola Dry Erase board.

I think this was before they started fighting over the dry erase board and Thomas decided to color on the couch with the marker.  See?  The Three Ring Circus begins!

We turn on the Memory Work CD (for our Classically Catholic Memory co-op) for all the kids to practice.  It's a new morning routine that I hope will stick.

And here it looks like Steven is listening to the CD while Mary Clare and Thomas are starting on their work in the schoolroom!  (Thomas will draw for 1 minute and then say, "I finished my schoolwork!  Can I watch a movie now?")  Ellie of course is nowhere to be found because I sent her to get dressed and her room is like a black hole.

Ah yes, my friend the Baby Bjorn potty.  This is an all-day distraction, because each time I have to come and dump it and give Tommy a Skittle for his success.  I will say that the candy is working and he stayed dry ALL DAY!  Oh and this is the best kid potty ever; the only one we've tried that is easy to clean!

Graham crackers and strawberries.  Not sure if this was breakfast or a snack.  But he is not screaming and is sitting in a chair, so that's good.

9:30--Make toast for myself and then sit with Ellie to read her History.
9:40--Mary Clare finds my burnt toast.  I try again and burn it again, then finally make one that isn't totally burned.
10:00--I finally eat breakfast.  If you'd call it that.

More Three Ring Circus.  Boys wrestling.

Steven Joseph reads a BOB book to me.

Thomas was first screaming because he wanted to turn off their memory work CD.  Then he wanted to get into the girls' dollhouse closet.  Nothing would appease him, until I let him watch a movie.  Pushover.

10:30--SJ and his phonics.  He requires quite a bit of one-on-one, and it's best if I take the time with him first while the girls do their independent workbooks.  Then I work with them late morning and early afternoon.  We do SJ's reading lesson and he sobs about not being able to cut out leaves to paste on his letter page.  We skip that activity.  Ellie had some kind of fit around this time too, but I can't remember what it was about.  Mary Clare's fits were saved until Tuesday.  Don't you all want to homeschool now???

11:00--SJ finishes all his work and I let him watch Netflix with Thomas.

And I escape to the bathroom to curl my hair and put on some jeans instead of cut-off capris.  Bathroom still a wreck here, but I tidy that up next.

12:30--We eat a "healthy" lunch of chicken nuggets and a baked potato for me.  Yep.
Then Daddy arrives unexpectedly for about 20 minutes to get his computer.  That's always a nice pick-me-up.
1:00--I take a little break with some ice cream and Words With Friends (Scrabble) on my iPhone. 

2:00--After lunch and some break time, we move onto Spelling for the girls.

Ellie is still out of sorts and is trying to do a workbook under the table.

Tommy puts on shin guards and cowboy boots to play outside (yeah, he has no pants...much easier to just have him in underwear with the whole potty training thing).

3:00--I tell the boys they can have ice cream if they play out in the backyard for 30 minutes while I finish working with the girls.  Here he is with his reward!  (Reminder--don't let 5yr old serve his own ice cream; that's a big bowl!)

3:45--The girls have finished all their necessary work (some subjects are only done 2-3 times a week, so they can be saved for another day).  I freshen up to get ready for ballet.  It's nice to have something in the afternoons to get dressed for, and some other moms to talk to.  It's getting increasingly hard to dress these days.  Belly is getting bigger here at 18 weeks, and most of my fall/winter maternity clothes are for a full-term mom (my winter babies were born in December).  These are regular jeans with a belly band, and my stomach hurt when I took them off at night.

A pretty bun for Ellie.  Now she's all smiles!  Ballet is much more fun than schoolwork.

4:25--Arrive at ballet.  The big kids all run inside while Thomas waits for me to carry him.  He is always so tired when we arrive.  But no naps for the weary!  If he naps, he'll be awake until midnight.

Ellie's class is 45 minutes, and Mary Clare's follows for an hour.  Daddy picks up the boys on his way home, so the last 30 minutes I get to visit without worrying about the boys fighting over toys or my phone.  Mary Clare is on the far right in the picture below.  I'm so glad we're now at a studio where I can watch them dance!

6:30--The girls and I arrive home to find the boys outside riding bikes.

Relaxing in the front yard.

I am way too wiped out to make dinner, so we're considering going out for Mexican food. Thomas is not interested.  He just wants to ride his bike and take a bath with his 4-wheeler toy.  This should have been the sign to go and get take-out and keep the kids at home, but we're gluttons for punishment, so....

7:15--Off we go to the Mexican restaurant, once again bribing Thomas with a movie on my iPhone.  I really don't like to be "one of THOSE moms" who lets her kids on electronics all the time.  But this kid is giving us a run for our money.  He just turned 3, and his fits can turn our days upside-down.  He's still kind of left out of a lot of the big kids' play, and of course they are busy with schoolwork, so he doesn't really know how to play by himself for more than 5-10 minutes at a time.  I'm hoping we're out of this stage before the baby arrives!

The kids were loud and antsy during dinner; a sit-down restaurant probably wasn't the best choice.  Especially when we're put in a 4-person booth.  But we had a lot of leftovers for lunch, so that was good! 

My favorite thing after a long day...a good soak in the tub.  I think I was soaking for over an hour, hence the wrinkled toes.

So yes, it's a circus.  Yes, it's demanding and exhausting.  Yes, we often think we must be insane for having all these children and homeschooling.  But yes, we'd do it again.  Yes, it's very rewarding.  As I look out my back window at 5:30 in the evening and see all the kids playing together in the backyard, my heart is filled with gratefulness at these amazing gifts.  Each of these precious souls cannot be replaced.  The effort it takes to educate, form, and raise them is a sacrifice that is well worth the sweat and tears, and I know one day we will be able to look back and say that this crazy circus was all worth it.

Monday, October 07, 2013

Little Moments

(Wrote this over a week ago, let's see if it will finally post!)

Phone blogging again here, some special little moments from the past few weeks. Our computer crashed this morning, so who knows when I'll be able to get the regular camera photos loaded so I can recap our vacation. At least the photos are backed up, but I sure hope we can get it working again!

Here are some little moments captured on the iPhone...

Clay creations


At our favorite road trip stop, Praseks

A fun bike passed down from the triplets

In traffic after co-op one day

Reading BOB books

She has taken over my sewing area

Somebody lost a tooth during a little fight with a big sister

A pretty sunset after a dinner out one evening
 
Napping with his shades 

 Nutcracker auditions!

Practicing making letters in salt

At Payless in Houston

During our late night at Target while locked out of the car waiting for a locksmith 

Out to Rico's with friends while visiting last weekend. 3 families (2 without dads) made 17 people!

A mom's night out on the island last week :)

First soccer game ever! (They lost 0-15 or so, we stopped counting!)

Beach cleanup for 4-H, the USS Lexington behind them

Free admission to the aquarium for the beach cleanup!

Tommy was so tired, on his tummy watching the fish!

Puppet show at aquarium learning area

Chasing the dolphin

Daddy and Tommy

Their new dry erase board

And taking advantage of the last day for swimming at the nearby pool on Sunday 
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